Ask for a private schoolwork change after a loss

For students

Avery’s class has to write about a loss and read it aloud. Someone close to Avery died recently. Avery wants to write a fictional story and turn it in privately.

Choose how to ask. Practice the request and say back the new plan.

Talk privately after class.

Send a note to the teacher.

Ask a counselor to help arrange the conversation.

For the counselor

2 min • Start. Say “Avery is made up. You can practice without sharing anything personal.”

6 min • Practice. Model “Could I write a made-up story and turn it in privately?” Students pick a way to ask. Reply “Yes. Include a beginning, middle, and end. Turn it in Friday.” Let students repeat the plan.

2 min • Check. Sample: “I’ll write a made-up story and turn it in privately Friday.” For real requests, coordinate with the teacher.

Fictional examples are fine. Students can point, speak, or pass.